Oral Sex — Enhanced!
Finding a man who likes to eat the kitty and does it well is the gift that keeps giving. And most guys will tell you that good head is gold, too. But even playing with your favorite toy gets tedious after a while. Here are few introductory positions to put some spice in your oral sex life.
The “One Up” Position
The “One Up” will spruce up your boring cunnilingus. It is a nice and easy technique that has the woman raise her hip, automatically increasing friction on her labia.
Bring her to the edge of the bed or counter and gently lift one of her legs in your arms or rest it on your shoulder. If it’s more comfortable, she can also grasp her thigh, opening wide, allowing you to lick as much she can handle. The rubbing is ecstatic for ladies who may have extra sensitivity on one side of the clitoris or for those that are stimulated by pressure.
Always make sure to keep her relaxed in this position. You don’t want to pull and push the muscles too aggressively. The only tension should be in your tongue and the bursting orgasm that should result if you get this right.
The “Elevator” Position
Here you will have to kneel in front of your lucky guy. His package should be neatly set right in your face, ready to be unwrapped and received. Take him into your mouth, and just like an elevator, move up and down. Go at various speeds. Change it up. Massage his member with your tongue. Take in as much as you can manage, then try an inch more. You don’t have to deepthroat, but trying is fun. Gagging is good. Making a mess is great. Just be sure to protect his delicate penis from your chompers.
Teeth are a no-no when it comes to going down on a dude, so be mindful if he likes it fast and aggressive. He needs tender attention, too, though. So, next time, before heading straight into sex, get on your knees and beg him to let you take care of him first.
The “Heir to the Throne” Position
During oral sex, you always want to make her feel like the queen you both know she is. Try this to put her on a sexy pedestal. Sit her on the edge of a steady seat with both legs lifted and spread. They can be held up or rested on the arms of a chair of a fancier variety. The results should be the same. The throne leaves nothing to the imagination with an open view for both of you to enjoy. She will be completely vulnerable to pleasure and exposed for you to kiss or finger.
This can be very intense for women who are extra sensitive to touch. Talk to her and make sure she feels like royalty. Another sexy perk is that, after she orgasms thanks to your mind-blowing tongue action, you will be in the perfect position for penetration. Why should the games end there?
The “David Copperfield” Position
The trick behind the David Copperfield position is using pillows to prop a woman’s waist, putting her lady parts in the perfect place to receive oral pleasure. This is the magic behind hitting the right spot, giving your lady unforgettable orgasms.
This is also great for those craving deeper sex, as it keeps the woman’s pelvis thrust forward. She will have a hard time pulling away. Experiment with different types and pillow sizes. Be sure to find the proper setup to make her relaxed and ready for you. If you make her cum hard enough, you can use a pillow to quiet her screams.
The “Closed for Business” Position
This is for ladies who cannot easily bear direct clitoral stimulation. If she begs you to stop before you even get started or if she orgasms too fast when you come close, you might want to try this tactic. Instead of eating her out, spread eagle, attempt to bring her to a slow and steady climax with her legs closed.
You can take your time to tease her into ultimate arousal. Don’t only toy with her lower lips — play with the erroneous zone around them. Watch her reaction to your everyone move to decide whether to be gentle or go harder. Be steady and consistent, only increasing pressure and intensity as her moaning and screams get louder. If she lets you in and you see she’s ready, you can gradually open her labia and engage more aggressively. Now that you know what to do — get to work!
The “Face Sitter” Position
Let her sit on your face if you stay cool under pressure. In this position, you give her control. She has the freedom to move as she pleases, hovering over your mouth.
Unless she has some killer hamstring strength, it is a good idea that she holds onto something for support. Use your muscles to keep her lifted, so she can move and gyrate without restraint. Make sure you can breathe while you lick her lips. Lie down and put your head between her thighs and go to town.
In this position, you have easy access to the front and the back and often neglected hot spots during foreplay.
The “69” Position
With this popular move, partners orally stimulate each other at the same time. Similar to the form of a yin yang symbol, lie head to toe so that your mouth and private parts are aligned. In the classical method, one person lies on top of the other.
There are different variations of the 69. Discover the one that permits you to receive the most gratification. Attempt lying on your side, squatting, and even standing up. Or try them all and keep it unpredictable.
This is a fun position for couples that just can’t wait to eat and be eaten. With both of your mouths full, it’s a bit challenging to say what feels right, so use nonverbal cues to communicate with your lover. It requires some focus to give and take pleasure simultaneously, but once you’ve found the right groove, you’ll become addicted to the delights of a dual orgasm.